One of the biggest challenges when introducing pegging into your relationship, is subtly bringing up the idea to your partner. It's a tricky subject to handle, as they might be totally for the idea; but chances are, it might take them a while to come around.
Many men find the idea of pegging incredibly daunting. Which makes your job harder. But good sex is only possible with communication, so it's always best to be open and honest with your partner about what you'd like to try in the bedroom! But of course, we understand that sometimes it's easier said than done.
Okay, before we get started let's give a quick overview of what pegging is for those who might be feeling a little lost. Don't worry, pegging is a relatively new trend, however it has shot to fame with exposure in media and online. The act of pegging typically refers to a woman penetrating a male with a strap-on dildo; however there are other variations that people may also refer to as pegging.
Pegging can be particularly empowering for women, as it is a great form of 'gender reversal' and helps to make women feel more in control. Plus, anal stimulation can be incredibly pleasurable for men!
With further ado, here are some easy, innocent ways you can introduce your partner to the world of pegging!
Start with an open and honest conversation. There's no need to jump straight into asking them if they want to do it right then and there, but it's a good idea to gather what their initial reaction is. Maybe they aren't even familiar with the term yet?
Once you know what their feelings are on the topic, it's easier to figure out the best way to approach the topic and ask if they'd be keen to try it!
Remember, communication is key in relationships, especially when discussing everything sex!
Take Netflix and chill to the next level! Pegging is featured in several films and TV shows, and this is a great way to subtly introduce the idea to your partner. Simply snuggle up for some quality TV time, and when the action (read: pegging) begins, drop some hints that you'd be interested in trying it out!
Deadpool, the 2016 American superhero film featuring Ryan Reynolds, has a great pegging scene during what can only be described as a "sex montage". In celebration of International Women's Day, Deadpool's wife is shown penetrating him with a strap-on. So, if Deadpool is doing it, why can't your man?!
TV show Broad City has been recognised and appreciated for celebrating sex and sexuality, and one episode features pegging. During missionary, Abbi suggests to her partner that they switch, as in switch positions. However Jeremy gets the wrong idea and pulls out a strap-on dildo, expecting her to peg him. This is a great pegging reference as it shows the man wanting to be pegged, and a lot of positive discussion around how it's totally okay!
The episode can be found in season 2, episode 4. Maybe watch a few other episodes so it's not TOTALLY out of the blue...
Alright, I don't recommend going out and buying the first thing you can find labelled "strap-on", but there are a range of dildos that can be detached from their harness. This means you can start out with the dildo at first. Maybe pull it out during sex, and try include a bit of anal play; whether on you or them. The idea is to work up to pegging slowly, without scaring them off!
The Realistic 6 Inch Strap-On is a great option for beginners, and the dildo can be removed completely too.
It might take your partner a while to come around to the idea; or maybe they'll never be open to it. Whatever the outcome, it's important to respect their decision and find something else that might work for you both. For example, you might compromise by suggesting some other anal toys to introduce in the bedroom to slowly build up to the idea! Just remember that there are plenty of other ways you can enjoy eachother!
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