So, you like things a little rough and you took the plunge to finally buy your first bondage whip. The smooth leather feels cool in your hands and you've been doing ridiculous windmill exercises to make sure you're primed for the task. Alas ... when it comes to actually using the whip, you're a little lost.
Don't worry! It's actually pretty simple. So, if you're new to the world of BDSM and impact play sit back, follow along and we'll have you spanking and being whipped like a pro in no time.
First, you need to determine what kind of whip you have purchased. There are several different kinds of whips and floggers used in impact play (what the BDSM community refers to the use of whips and floggers as).
There's your traditional riding crop that consists of a long stem tipped with a leather flap. These are perfect for targeted whipping when you want to give your partner a good stinging feeling. It's easy to control the intensity with a riding crop whip. This makes them perfect for those new to impact play and are finding their feet.
Flogger whips are next on the list. These consist of a stout handle with several ribbons of rubber or silicone attached to the end. Similar to the riding crop, the flogger provides a stinging sensation, however, it is spread over a wider area of the body, making for a more intense experience. A flogger requires a bit more experience in the bedroom as it can be difficult to control the intensity of impact.
Lastly are the bullwhips. These are the most intense kind of whip on the market. Bullwhips are single-tailed and are for advanced kinksters only. These create the most intense sting of the three and require some practice in order to use it effectively.
Now that you know what kind of whip you have, get your naughty little sub to bend over. Either your knee or a chair will do. Start slowly, gently spank the back of your sub's thighs and the peak of their bum, teasing them with what's to come. Once you've teased your sub enough, break out the appropriate whip and focus again on the back of their thighs and their bum. These are the fleshiest parts of the body and the safest to target during impact play.
Make sure you and your sub have agreed on a safe word before engaging in any sort of BDSM scene to ensure everyone's comfort and safety. Discussing any new toys or practices being brought into the bedroom makes for a happy, safe and healthy sex life.
There you have it! You now have everything you need to get started with some sexy whipping, spanking and flogging. You'll be an expert in no time!
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