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10 Things You Should Never Say to a Bisexual Person

By Emily 3 years ago. Posted in Relationship Advice
10 Things You Should Never Say to a Bisexual Person

Being bisexual means you're attracted emotionally, physically, and/or sexually to people of all genders. Bisexual folks are more likely to be closeted than other folks in the rainbow community, it can be hard given the stereotypes inside and outside of the community about bisexuality. Here are some things you shouldn't say to a bi person and why...

So do you like men or women?

Look, it's not 50/50. Bi doesn't mean two. It means ALL genders. And while some bisexuals might have a preference, it's not that important and it's rude to ask. Sexuality is a spectrum, some bi folks might mostly like dating women and non-binary people but might be open to dating cisgender men. Some might mostly be with men but like women too. None of this determines how bisexual they are or whether they're bisexual. Don't get hung up on this, and whatever you do don't try to judge a bisexual person based on preferences.

Are you a cheater?

Just because you like all genders it doesn't mean you don't believe in monogamy or are incapable of being faithful. Many folks queer or straight are polyamorous which means they have discussed with their partners what kind of relationship they want ouside of monogamy. Many folks queer or straight are monogamous because that suits them most. Bisexuality doesn't mean - cheating. It doesn't mean you want to be with all genders at the same time when you're in a relationship.

Pick a side

Many people believe bisexual folks are gay or lesbian or straight and they just haven't "picked a side". This is totally wrong. Again, sexuality is a spectrum. You get to decide where you sit on that spectrum and nobody gets to choose that for you.

It's just a phase

Just like any other sexuality isn't a phase, neither is bisexuality. Of course some people realise over time that they're not bisexual instead they're gay or straight. But the same happens for straight folks - and you wouldn't call being heterosexual a phase. So please don't call bisexuality a phase!

Do you just want to have sex with everyone?

Being bisexual doesn't mean you're sexually greedy. It doesn't mean you're DTF anyone. It just means you're into hearts not parts! It's really not hard to understand. Painting bisexual folks (particularly women) as "up for it" all the time isn't just wrong - it's dangerous. This myth contributes to sexual violence against bisexual people. When you hear people say this, you must call it out. These attitudes really hurt bisexual people.

You can't be bi if you're married to someone or in a relationship with someone who is a different gender to you

No. No. No. No. Being bi means you are as likely to be in a relationship with someone of the same gender as you as you are to be in a relationship with someone of a different gender. So my marriage means nothing in regards to my sexuality - my partner could be a husband, wife, or lover and it wouldn't change that I'm bisexual. I could be with anyone because my choice isn't about what their gender is, it's about who they are as a person. You don't cease to be heterosexual because you're not in a relationship, so why would a bisexual person cease to be bisexual if they're in a relationship within the bounds of their preference?

Do you want a threesome?

No. I don't. Well, I probably don't. The Bisexual Unicorn - a woman who wants to have sex with you and your wife (because let's face it - hetero men ask this question) is called a unicorn because she mostly doesn't exist. Bisexual women don't exist to spice up your relationship or fulfill your sexual fantasties. I'll repeat, because it's so important, the idea that bisexual women are "up for it" all the time is dangerous. This myth contributes to sexual violence against bisexual people.

Bisexuals are only attracted to binary genders

Bi doesn't mean two! It really doesn't! It means - my gender and other genders! Respected bisexual activist Robyn Ochs describes bisexuality as the potential "to be attracted — romantically and/or sexually — to people of more than one sex and/or gender, not necessarily at the same time, not necessarily in the same way, and not necessarily to the same degree." It's not binary and it doesn't exclude the trans community. Still, you may meet folks who call themselves Queer instead of Bi because of this misunderstanding about preference.

Emily
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